Life's Most Joyful Existence

                Friends are some of life's most joyful existences. A friend is the one you could be yourself around, no barriers, no worries. Friends supplement each other with the most important life factors. In a friend, love, care, support, acceptance and honesty should be present. I personally believe, trust is the essence of every relationship.

              A true friend is the one you would share everything with, the one you would let go of all your immunity systems around, the one you would have the most fun with and the one you would rely on and find, when you need. In exchange, the ones you would consider friends, you should love infinitely, unconditionally, always and forever.

            For some, being friends is easy, for others, who use what i call, immunity systems or protection barriers, friendship isn't exactly the easiest deal. Those people, I believe, do need time to fully commit to a relationship, to let friends in, to respect and accept their definite presence in their lives. However, these particular people don't build these defensive mechanisms out of nowhere.

               Betrayal is a tough act to swallow. As one gets betrayed by a loved one, time and again, they feel the necessity of those reactive outbursts of defense. Although they're hard to get, when they love, care, respect, support or confide, they do it to the fullest. These people are genuine in an inexplicable way, their capacity to give and not ask of anything in return, is beautifully priceless. 

           For each and everyone of us, there's this one friend, who's just unique, this one person we would give everything to keep. The presence of such an extraordinary relationship, in which one is supposed to be "all in," is simply, the most nurturing and nonexchangeable blessing one could ever have the fortune of owning or maintaining.

        "Unconditional love, unquestionable trust, infinite support, tremendous care and definite presence," these are the qualities of life's most joyful existence and you'd be lucky to find "the one," miraculously a couple of those, should make your life a living "heaven."